1.) As you are kissing her, rub your hands firmly up and down her back. Once you've been kissing for several minutes, work your fingers under the bottom of her shirt, and circle back to her stomach (still kissing, but alternating between her lips, neck, and ear lobes.)
2.) Gently scratch her back as you are kissing her, and softly but firmly slide your hand up under hair at the nape of her neck and give a nice squeeze =)
3.) Lift up her shirt and take it off in the smoothest way possible, being careful not to pull her hair!
4.) Now that her shirt is off, slowly progress your kissing downward towards her breasts, kissing the upper area, and still rubbing her lower body with your hands.
5.) As you are kissing her neck, reach behind and unhook her bra. If you get stuck, don't worry! Just smile at her and say, "assistance please" and she'll unhook it for you.
6.) DO NOT GO STRAIGHT FOR THE BOOBS! Go back to kissing her on the lips and neck! (In fact, until you are fully going down on her, you should always return to her mouth every so often to kiss her passionately). Then, taking your time, make your way down to her breasts, but DO NOT GO FOR HER NIPPLES! Kiss them in slow circles, leaving the nipples for LAST!
7.) When you get to her nipples, lick them gently, alternating between the 2. When your mouth isn't on one, your finger should be on the other (lick it for lubrication =) )
8.) Move down to her stomach, and use the same slow, anticipation-building style. Try to kiss every inch of it! Slip your tongue under her waistband to tease her once in a while, and "accidentally" graze your chin over her "area", breathing heavily
9.) Kiss her on the mouth again while you go to take off her pants. But NOT her panties! It's time for the fun part =)
10.) Give her what she wants =)